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I’m Alyse, nice to meet you.

I’m the BetesBoss! I figured I can’t just dive into the present without a little background information. I’m a Jersey girl born and raised. I grew up right on the water of the beautiful Jersey Shore. I come from a loud, supportive, crazy, and loving Italian family. I have a brother, Pauly, who’s 20 months younger than me.

T H E – D I A G N O S I S

I was diagnosed on March 13th, 2001 — which was my 10th birthday. 🎉 I am 29 years old, so that’s 19 years living with diabetes. My Mom could tell the story of my diagnosis better, but basically I was misdiagnosed by my pediatrician’s office. I had all of the signs: weight loss, dehydration, bad breathe, constant thirst and urination. But we didn’t know the signs. A family friend with a T1D son told my mom to buy Ketone Sticks from the pharmacy and my ketones were off the charts. My Mom took me to the emergency room immediately and I was in ICU for days. If she didn’t take me to the emergency room that night I would’ve died. I don’t like to tell that story so much because I feel like it sounds so dramatic, but looking back it WAS dramatic and traumatic.

T H E – P R E S E N T

Fast forward 19 years and here we are. I live in Howell, NJ with my husband, Edward ❤️ @expalfini, and our pup Kylo 🦊 @kylopupp . I am two days older than Eddie (we’re both pisces).

I am a designer and owner of @fox.and.sea which specializes in unique luxe wedding stationary and event branding. Check out our Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/shop/FoxandSeaDesign

I love tarot, crystals, and all things spiritual. Learn more about that over on the BetesTarot page or book a virtual reading with me in the shop!🔮

Most importantly, I am very lucky to have a beautiful, supportive, and loving family and group of friends. This is my messy, up and down, always learning and improving, real life, day-to-day diabetes journey. This is me, I hope you’re along for the ride!

Love + Light,